1. Send a sexy message
Too busy to actually have any kind of IRL sex this weekend? That’s okay, have a virtual type instead. Sexting is an option, as is emailing (sexmailing?). If you need some dirty talk tips, we’ve got you covered.
2. Take your time
If you know the art of seduction, you know that intercourse can last for days, even weeks. Start your weekend with a little something to pique their interest on Friday night—maybe a slow, steamy kiss or a hot photo. Then top things off on Saturday with some grooming time or a quick (agreed) hit in the laundry room. By the time you get down to business on Sunday, all the anticipation building will ensure that everyone will have a good time.
3. Invent a special occasion
It’s National Payroll Week in the UK. Just saying. Find any excuse to dress up and get ready and spend some time gazing into each other’s eyes over a candlelit or moonlit glass. Breaking out of your usual pantsless-on-the-couch routine can heat things up very effectively.
4. Role play
If you feel the weight of being the same person every day, mix things up. You don’t have to dress up like a French maid if you don’t want to, just inhabit the mental space of someone who will turn you on and start from that place.
5. Shop for a new toy together
Going to a sex shop can be fun, but if you’re more of an online shopper, that works just as well. Check out your favorite sites together—we love it feeling and Spectrum Boutique (not sponsored, we just genuinely like them). Just browsing the options can get you in the mood. When you actually buy something, you look forward to the package arriving in the mail, setting you up nicely for next weekend.
