Surrogacy is a remarkable and compassionate way for individuals who are unable to carry or conceive children to fulfill their dreams of parenthood. However, it often has misunderstandings and misconceptions. In this article, we aim to answer ten common questions about being a surrogate to alleviate any concerns you may have as you consider starting the wonderful surrogacy journey with Patriot Conceptions.
1. How does a surrogate get pregnant?
The process begins with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). Once matched with the intended parents, the embryos are created at the IVF clinic, using either the genetic material of the intended parents or a donor. These embryos are carefully transferred into the surrogate’s uterus by a skilled fertility specialist. It is a simple, quick procedure that does not require pain relief or anesthesia. Surrogates usually leave the medical facility after the transfer. A blood pregnancy test is performed around 10 days after the transfer to confirm the pregnancy.
2. Is surrogacy legal?
Surrogacy laws can be complicated and vary from state to state in the United States. To find surrogacy-friendly states, consult resources like Patriot Conceptions. Some states, like California, are considered very suitable for surrogacy, while others, like Nebraska, may not be as kind. Since surrogacy is still a relatively new field, laws may evolve over time. Patriot Conceptions works with experienced reproductive and family law attorneys to ensure a smooth journey.
3. How long does it take to match intended parents?
The matching process can vary, but on average, it takes about three months. Patriot Conceptions prioritizes social compatibility, and your surrogacy coordinator will work closely with you to understand your wishes and needs. Extensive pre-screening is carried out for all parties involved, ensuring your safety and peace of mind.
4. What are the fees?
Patriot Conceptions offers comprehensive compensation packages tailored to your needs. These packages typically include monthly compensation, maternity allowances, lost wage coverage, housing allowances, childcare allowances, personalized gifts, and pregnancy bonuses. For specific details, please visit our website.
5. Do I need to purchase health insurance to be a surrogate?
No, you do not need to have your own health insurance for the surrogacy process. If you lack personal health insurance, Patriot Conceptions will assist your compatible intended parents in obtaining appropriate insurance coverage for the entire pregnancy. After the baby is born, the child is added to the parents’ health insurance, and you are not financially responsible for medical bills related to the pregnancy.
6. What are the surrogate requirements?
Although requirements may vary depending on the fertility doctor, common criteria include being under the age of 43, having a previous successful birth and at least one biological child, maintaining a normal BMI, being non-smoker, and no history of pregnancy complications or premature birth. Patriot Conceptions will review your past OB/delivery records to ensure that the best interests of all parties are being considered.
7. Do surrogates suffer any negative effects from surrogacy?
While any pregnancy carries some physical, emotional, and mental risks, surrogates rarely experience additional adverse effects. Most surrogates find the experience rewarding and may even consider surrogacy again in the future. If you have concerns at any point in your surrogacy journey, Patriot Conceptions is always there to provide support.
8. How much contact do surrogates and intended parents share with each other?
The level of contact varies based on individual preferences and the agreement between you and the intended parents. Many relationships between surrogates and intended parents develop into lifelong friendships. Patriot Conceptions specialists will support you and act as mediators to help establish communication expectations at the beginning of your surrogacy journey.
9. Can I be a surrogate if my tubes are tied?
Yes, you can be a surrogate mother even if you have had a tubal ligation, commonly known as “having your tubes tied.” This method does not affect your ability to carry a pregnancy, as it mainly prevents ovulation and does not prevent the successful implantation of an embryo in your uterus.
10. Why should I choose Patriot Conceptions over other surrogacy agencies?
Patriot Conceptions has a legacy of excellence, having been established in 1991. Our experienced staff, which includes former intended parents and surrogates, is well versed in the surrogacy process. We are passionate about helping intended parents start families and make dreams come true for all parties involved. For inspiring testimonials from surrogates, visit our website.
Your journey as a surrogate at Patriot Conceptions is a wonderful and selfless act that allows intended parents to experience the joy of parenthood. If you are considering becoming a surrogate, contact us to start building a family today. Your generosity can empower dreams and create beautiful families.
