7 Ways to Be a Good Intended Parent for a Surrogacy Journey — Colorado Surrogacy
Here are 7 ways to be a good intended parent for a surrogacy journey.
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Talk openly and honestly: Maintaining clear and open communication is essential for any successful surrogacy journey. As an intended parent, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with your surrogate and any other parties involved, such as your agency. Also, the ability to listen carefully for your surrogate’s needs and concerns will help build a good relationship.
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Be respectful and supportive: It is important to treat the surrogate with respect and kindness throughout the surrogacy process. This means being supportive of their needs and feelings and offering help and guidance when needed.
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Be actively involved in the process: Being involved in the process will help to build a strong relationship with the surrogate and ensure that everyone is on the same page. This may include attending medical appointments (if possible), communicating regularly with the surrogate, and attending the birth.
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Be flexible and adaptable: Surrogacy can be a complex and unpredictable process with many twists and turns. It is important to be flexible and adaptable in the face of any challenges or changes that come your way.
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Be prepared to handle emotions: The surrogacy process can be emotional for everyone involved. Being willing to manage your own emotions, as well as being supportive of the surrogate’s emotions, can help create a positive and respectful environment for everyone. Seek professional guidance for tools on how to best navigate the complex emotions associated with surrogacy.
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Respect boundaries: It’s important to respect your surrogate’s boundaries, including any requests for privacy. This will help to maintain a positive relationship.
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Show gratitude and appreciation: Parenting through surrogacy is an incredible gift and it is important to show gratitude and appreciation to the surrogate and her family. Thanking him and his wife/partner for their generosity and support. Even a simple handwritten note of appreciation can have a big impact.
