Surrogacy is a wonderful gift of love, but it is not the easiest path. You will need someone to help you because the process will change you in ways you can’t imagine.
Being a supportive partner to a surrogate can be a rewarding experience for you and
your successor. Here are some tips on how to be the best support system possible:
Contact Your Replacement
You and your successor should be on the same page and have an open line of communication. You need to discuss many elements of her pregnancy, from her health to her feelings about being pregnant. It is also important that you agree on her diet and activities during pregnancy.
Be Open-Minded About Anything That Happens During Pregnancy
The more open minded you are during pregnancy, the better it will be for everyone involved. If something unexpected or uncomfortable happens, try not to overreact. For example, if your surrogate has morning sickness but doesn’t want to take any medications because they might harm the baby, don’t push her to take them just because it might make you feel better. Instead, help him find other ways to deal with morning sickness; instead of three large meals, eat moderate meals throughout the day.
Be Supportive When Things Get Hard
Being a surrogate mother takes a lot of courage. Giving the ability to bring life into this world is something most women dream of but never expect. Your surrogacy journey can be completely overwhelming, and that’s okay. You’re not alone. Remember this when things get tough, as they will at some point, because no journey is easy. Those who enter surrogacy are strong-willed and courageous individuals who are not afraid to do what others will not do. This can include being a supportive partner during your trials and tribulations and helping you get through the times when you feel like giving up.
Be a source of encouragement.
Being a supportive partner to a surrogate is not easy, but it is possible. Surrogates should not be treated as just things that produce babies. They are people too, who go through great stress and discomfort to help intended parents achieve their dream of parenthood. The last thing teens need is criticism or praise from their intended parents.
Don’t be jealous of the baby.
Surrogacy is about the intended parents getting their family. It’s understandable if you’re jealous of this new baby coming into their lives. This can be difficult if you have a natural feeling of jealousy towards the baby, which is common for alternate partners. However, it will help practice selflessness to be a successful surrogate partner.
