This year, we’re taking Valentine’s Day into our own hands. We think the best way to celebrate is by putting ourselves first instead of waiting for someone else to get ahead of us (although if someone else wants to do that, we won’t say no!). Here are some ideas to get your V-Day off to a good start:
1. Make it a Palentine’s Day
There’s no better self-care than time with your besties. Spending time with friends or family members who support and encourage you is a great way to surround yourself with love on Valentine’s Day (or any day).
2. Have an adventure
Take the opportunity to do something outside of your normal routine. You can adjust the level of adventurousness here—from trying a new type of food to going to a concert to sweeping yourself up for a spontaneous weekend getaway.
3. Take a break from social media
Disconnecting for a while can be a great reset, and it’s a good idea especially if you’re feeling down about Valentine’s Day. You don’t need to see all those pictures of the happy couple!
4. Indulge your inner goblin
Eat cake for dinner and skip the appliances. Go through the McDonald’s drive-through in your robe. No more rules, just vibes.
5. Get physical
Boost your mood with any kind of movement that makes you happy. And yes, spicy playtime is important.
6. Write a love letter to yourself
The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself, so invest in it this Valentine’s Day. Try making a list of things you like about yourself or writing an encouraging note to yourself. Think about how you would talk to someone you love, and talk to yourself that way.
7. Make it romantic
How many of us wish someone would plan a romantic night for us, only to fail. So light your own candles, sprinkle your own rose petals, set yourself up a gorgeous bath, and pour yourself a glass of the good stuff.
