Getting married is one of life’s major milestones, and there are many things to celebrate as the day approaches. Wondering what a bridal shower is? It is to celebrate the bride, the single life she is leaving behind, and her future as a married woman. Although it is steeped in tradition, ideas are evolving and there are many great ways to host a great bridal shower.
What is a Bridal Shower and who is the host?
When considering what a bridal shower is, there are often questions surrounding who hosts it. Traditionally the maid of honor will host the bridal shower. He, or in some cases, is responsible for the guest list, place, time, and any games or decorations. In most cases the whole wedding the party is coming.
It should be held close to the wedding, to offer a break from the planning and stress the bride is under. During the last few months is ideal, and the gifts are usually for the bride herself, rather than for the couple. At an engagement party the gifts are for both people, however the wedding the shower is only for the bride.
Decorations should be light and fun but suit the bride’s personality. Keeping it in the sun can make it light and easy to plan. Food and drink may be present, as well as space for gift opening. The point of the shower is to shower to him with love and appreciation.
What do you do at a Bridal Shower?
Fun bridal shower games are often one of the favorite things to do at a Bridal Shower. Games include how much each person knows about the bride, guessing which gift is from whom, or sharing stories about the bride in her single days.
When choosing meals, a brunch or lunch can keep it simple. It can be a full sit-down meal with a mimosa or high tea with biscuits and a variety of teas and sandwiches. Choose an activity or location that the bride enjoys, whether it’s a restaurant or a backyard barbecue, as long as she can have fun and all her favorite people are there.
In contrast to bachelorette parties, these are relaxed events for enjoying time together. Alcohol may be present, and often is, but the goal is not to get drunk. Loud parties are saved for bachelor and bachelorette parties while bridal showers are just plain fun. Go back to basics and simply enjoy being together before the wedding.
Who to Invite to a Bridal Shower
When creating the guest list begins with the bridal party, her maid of honor and bridesmaids are key to the success of a bridal shower. Inviting her mother and future mother-in-law is common. All of her close female friends should try and attend, including women in her family such as sisters, cousins, aunts, and even grandmothers. These are usually child-free events; however, some have broken the tradition for girls within the family and youths. More recently, male friends have been added to the guest list if they are close to the bride, and this is perfectly acceptable and encouraged if it makes her happy.
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About the Author
Jane Sheriff is the founder, creative director, party planner and mother of three. She started Darling Celebrations in 2012 to share easy and beautiful ideas for celebrating life’s special events.
