In a world dominated by social media highlight reels, it’s easy to believe that infertility isn’t a big issue. That an isolated few struggle to conceive. But the statistics tell a different story. A new report from the World Health Organization shows that 1 in 6 people will face infertility in their lifetime. But, despite its prevalence, infertility is a taboo subject for many, and people are often embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it.
but National Infertility Awareness Week is very important. Now through April 29, you can join the thousands of voices working to break down the stigma surrounding infertility and to provide support and resources for those struggling. If you want to become an advocate for infertility awareness, here are some tips to get you started:
1. Share Your Story
If you’ve personally struggled with infertility, consider sharing your story on social media or even with friends in casual conversation. Talking openly about infertility can help break down the stigma and let others know they are not alone. RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association social media users are encouraged to use #VoicesofInfertility in their posts to join the growing movement.
2. Commit to Compassionate Language
Much of the trauma associated with infertility comes from poorly worded questions or statements that force those struggling with infertility into uncomfortable situations. Resist the urge to ask people “when they plan to have kids” or “if they’re trying.” Unsolicited advice can also be hurtful or damaging. Avoid statements such as “just relax” or “it will happen when it’s meant to.” Instead, use supportive and sympathetic language to let them know you care and ask what you can do to support them more.
3. Go Orange
In solidarity with the 1 in 6 people dealing with infertility, RESOLVE asks you to #WearOrange on Wednesday, April 26. According to the organization, “RESOLVE uses orange to raise awareness, increase activity around an important movement and remind our community every day that RESOLVE is there for them in times of frustration while teaching and promoting physical and emotional well-being.” Want to go one step further? Help your city “dress up” for National Infertility Awareness Week by contacting your local community landmarks and businesses to ask them to turn their lights orange.
4. Support Infertility Organizations
There are many organizations dedicated to supporting couples struggling with infertility. Consider donating or volunteering at organizations like these RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association, The International Council on Infertility Information Dissemination or the BabyQuest Foundation.
5. Educate Yourself
Learn more about infertility and the challenges couples face. Read books, attend seminars or webinars or watch videos from reliable sources. Throughout this week, RESOLVE will be hosting Instagram Live conversations with experts in the infertility space and panels to discuss important infertility issues. You will see a full schedule of educational events here.
6. Advocate for Infertility Coverage
Many insurance plans do not cover infertility treatments, making it difficult for couples, especially LGBTQ+ couples, to afford the care they need. Consider advocating for infertility coverage at your workplace, state and federal. RESOLVE Advocacy Network Action Center provides easy ways for you to promote increased access to all family planning options at a state and national level. Sign petitions, send letters to your members of congress and more. You can too sign up to receive instant action alerts from the RESOLVE Advocacy Network (RAN).
By being an informed and active advocate during National Infertility Awareness Week and beyond, you can help break down the stigma surrounding infertility and provide support and resources for those struggling. Remember, even the smallest actions can make a big difference!
