The desire to have more children after being a surrogate is a personal decision, and while we would like to say that everyone can continue to carry their own pregnancy after being a surrogate, we would like to consider potential surrogates explore all possibilities before they begin their surrogacy journey. Because every pregnancy has its risks and uncertainties, we encourage people to apply after they know their family is complete – just in case something happens that prevents them from carrying another pregnancy of their own.
Here are some considerations and steps to keep in mind if you decide to have more children after becoming a surrogate:
Recovery and Health: Before planning to conceive again, it is important to make sure that your body has fully recovered from the surrogacy journey. Consult your health care provider to evaluate your general health and discuss any specific considerations for your situation. [This is also true if you are considering multiple surrogacy journeys!] If you are experiencing challenges conceiving, consider seeking fertility testing to identify any potential issues and explore appropriate treatments or interventions if necessary.
Timing: The time when you can begin to conceive depends on a variety of factors, including any medical or emotional recovery needed after surrogacy. Your health care provider can offer guidance at the appropriate time. Again, we prefer that potential surrogates have completed their families and do not plan to have any subsequent pregnancies of their own.
Relationship with Your Partner: Discuss your desire to have more children with your partner. Consider how this decision aligns with your family planning goals and make sure you’re both on the same page. It is important to include them in the decision to have more children and the decision to be a surrogate. If they want more children, it’s best to revisit the idea of a surrogacy journey after you and your partner have children of your own.
Remember that the decision to have more children is important and personal. It’s important to prioritize your physical and emotional well-being, communicate openly with your partner, and plan for the future accordingly. Whether you choose to have more children or not, the experience of being a surrogate can be an incredibly meaningful part of your life journey. We just want to do our best to make sure the surrogacy journey doesn’t affect your family.
